I wish someone had told me this when I started.
The advice to pick a niche first is not wrong.
It is just early.
I know this because I followed it, and it cost me months I did not have.
When I finished my certification, I did exactly what everyone told me to do.
“Pick your niche. Get specific. You cannot serve everyone”.
So I tried. I went back and forth for weeks. Career coach? Leadership? Professionals in transition? I would decide on something, sit with it for a few days, feel nothing, and change my mind. Then change it again.
I thought the problem was me. That I was not decisive enough. Not ready. Not clear.
None of that was true.
I was trying to answer a question I did not have enough information to answer yet.
A niche is an answer. The problem is “you are skipping the questions”.
What I eventually understood, not from a book, but from going through it myself, is that your niche is not something you choose from a list.
It comes from knowing yourself. From understanding the specific problem that lives in you. From being honest about who you can genuinely serve and why.
Here is what I had to learn for multiple wrong tries.
Who you actually are right now
When I started, I tried to hide where I came from. I thought my background made me sound too rigid, too far from the warm image I had of coaching. So I kept things vague. I presented myself as generally as possible.
That was one of the most expensive mistakes I made.
Everything I had lived, the leadership, the decisions, the transitions, the pressure, that was not something to work around. It was the most differentiating thing about me. I just could not see it at the time.
Your background does the same thing for you.
The industry you came from. The failures you survived. The kind of pain you understand from the inside, not from a textbook.
You cannot find the right niche without knowing what you actually bring to it. Most of us skip this step because sitting with it is uncomfortable.
I did too.
The problem that will not leave you alone
For a long time I thought I needed to find a profitable problem to solve. I was looking at trends, scanning markets, trying to figure out what people were willing to pay for.
All useful. But I was doing it in the wrong order.
The question that actually moved things for me was simpler: what is the problem I keep coming back to, whether anyone is paying me or not?
For me, it was watching capable people stay invisible. Coaches, professionals, experts who had something real to offer but could not figure out how to make it visible. That bothered me. It still does.
I stopped treating that as a personal preference and started taking it seriously.
Your niche is somewhere inside that feeling. Not the other way around.
A real picture of the person you want to help
I used to describe my ideal client the way marketing guides say to.
Demographics. Pain points. Goals. All the right boxes.
But I did not really know them. Not the way you need to know someone to genuinely help them.
What are they thinking about at midnight when they cannot sleep? What have they already tried that did not work? What would change — not just in their work, but in how they see themselves, if this finally got resolved?
I found honest answers to those questions through real conversations. And through remembering what it felt like to be that person myself.
After that, picking a niche did not feel like a decision I was forcing. It felt like something I was finally seeing clearly.
So what is the first step?
Clarity.
But not niche clarity.
Clarity about yourself. About the problem that keeps pulling at you. About the person whose situation you actually understand.
The niche follows from that. When those three things are honest and clear, the niche stops being a question you are trying to force an answer to.
I built the first step of BrandOS around exactly this, not around picking a niche, but around the work that makes the right niche obvious.
If you are a coach still going in circles on this, I am not here to tell you what your niche should be.
I want to know what is making it hard to answer.
BrandOS is a guided system | six tools that take you from certified coach to a positioned, profitable coaching business with real purpose behind it.
Not advice. Not theory. A step-by-step process that produces actual outputs.
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